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His body language is all cramped up and nervous as if he's trying to disappear. His style of dressing usually shows no pride or personality.
And if he is lucky enough to get a number, he calls the chick ten times a day. And he's dead serious, as if she counts so much he can't afford to screw up by relaxing too much for a second! Since this has been happening on such a MASSIVE SCALE, it's reached the point where even COOL guys are paying for the sins of the guys who have been kissing women’s butts. A lot of cool guys today are reluctant as heck to enter a relationship because many women are convinced that if a guy gets into a relationship, it means she can control him, and that he is needy. |
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So let's say you're at the supermarket, then have openers like *Do you clean as well as cook?* while she's in the poultry section, for example. Then, whatever she replies, i.e. if she says *No*, then say, *Oh well, then it will never work between us* with a sly attitude.
Sometimes, you'll find there is nothing that happens to be PERFECTLY TAILORED for the situation, so for those situations, you'll use the UNIVERSAL openers, like for example a straight-from-the-hip no-b.s. *what's up*. |
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Another form of pain management is to ensure that you interpret women's reactions correctly. It's easy and tempting to read too much into a woman's behavior, and even more difficult to not take her reactions too seriously. Remember that while you're trying to get into her bed, you should never try to get into her head. You need to keep your observation of her behavior based only on the results you get. Watch only what she DOES, not what she says. Her actions will tell you what she is feeling, even when her words seem to contradict. If you get caught up in the game of trying to figure out why she didn't call, or why she always flirts with other guys when you're around, you'll create a lot of pain for yourself. Stay as detached from her as possible at the early stages so you can avoid getting misdirected.
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